The number of family caregivers providing care for elderly parents at home is on the rise. According to the AARP, approximately 41 million Americans are currently providing care for a family member. In most cases, this is for an elderly parent. It’s a difficult role to take on, as it can be emotionally and physically draining.
If you’re providing care for an elderly parent, it’s important to be aware of the common mistakes and how to avoid them. Here, we’ll cover some of the most common errors first time caregivers make.
Mistakes To Avoid
Communication is key in any caregiving arrangement. You must listen to your parents. Though in some stages of the aging process, they may seem like children, do not forget they have accumulated a lifetime of wisdom and deserve your respect.
Never become impatient. That’s easier said than done, but it’s extremely important. Your parent may have slowed physically and mentally. It can be difficult to wait on them. Yes, it may be easier for you to perform a task yourself, but it’s better to assist where possible. Letting them still perform some of the household chores makes them feel useful. Nothing is worse for a senior than to feel useless.
It’s a big mistake not to be organized. You need to keep up with your parent’s medical records and medications. You’ll also need to keep track of other documents, such as insurance policies and bills.
Not taking care of yourself is the biggest mistake that’s often made by family caregivers. You can’t take care of others if you don’t take care of yourself. You must avoid caregiver burnout.
Signs of Caregiver Burnout
The world-famous Cleveland Clinic lists several signs of caregiver burnout. These include:
- Withdrawal from friends and other family members
- No longer enjoying other activities
- Depression
- Weight changes
- Difficulty sleeping
- Getting sick more often
- Irritability
- Exhaustion
If you have any of these symptoms, you need to get other family members to help with caring for your elderly parent. If it’s not possible to get family help with your caregiving role, you need a professional caregiver to help with at least part of the caregiving.
Benefits of Caregiver Services
Using caregiver services can provide many benefits for both you and your elderly parent. Professional caregivers can provide the care your elderly parent needs, while also allowing you to take a break from caregiving. Professional caregivers can also provide expertise and insight into the care of your elderly parent, as well as help with tasks you can’t do, such as medical procedures.
Conclusion
Whether you need a full time or part-time professional caregiver to help you with an elderly family member, Advanced Health Care is here to help. Contact us today to see how we can ease your workload. You can call us at (262) 236-9194. We look forward to meeting you.
